Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling.Photo:Tim Hunter / Newspix via Getty; Mike Coppola/Getty

Why Eva Mendes Didn’t Walk the Carpet with Ryan Gosling at Oscars

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The pair,who first met on the set of their 2012 movieThe Place Beyond the Pines,rarely appear together on red carpets or at other Hollywood events. Gosling, 43, a Best Supporting Actor nominee forBarbie, attended Sunday’s 96th Academy Awards alongside his family, includingsister Mandiandmom Donna.

“It truly seems they are surviving Hollywood as a couple, because of the way they‘ve handled being famous. They try their best to stay out of the spotlight," a source tells PEOPLE of Gosling and Mendes, 50.

“For them, themost important job is their girls. Everything else comes second,” the source of the pair, who share daughters Esmeralda, 9, and Amada, 7. “Of course Eva is proud and excited for Ryan. She still sees it as a job though.”

“It seems like a healthy way of living. They’re amazing as a couple and very happy together,” the source adds. “There’s so much love.”

Eva Mendes and Ryan Golsing.Sonia Recchia/Getty Images

Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling

Another source close to Mendes adds that the actress is “not into” all that red carpets entail after years in the spotlight. “She’s moved past that part of her life for now — the glam and the red carpet and the photographers,” says the source. “It’s just not important to her. She knows that it’s part of Ryan’s job but it’s not part of hers at the moment. She’s content doing her thing with her family.”

“You took Ken all the way to the Oscars, RG. Now come home, we need to put the kids to bed. 💋,” she wrote in a caption to a post showing herself in a pink blazer and a black cowboy hat.

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Ryan Gosling and Mandi Gosling on March 10, 2024.John Shearer/WireImage

Ryan Gosling and Mandi Gosling attend the 96th Annual Academy Awards on March 10, 2024 in Hollywood, California.

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Though Gosling did not walk away with a Best Supporting Actor trophy for his work as Ken inBarbie(Robert Downey Jr. won the award forOppenheimer), his Oscars night included a memorable onstage appearance withThe Fall Guycostar Emily Blunt totrade jokes about their Barbenheimer “rivalry”, on top of his “I’m Just Ken” performance.

Barbiereceived eight total nominations at Sunday’s 96th Oscars. The movie ultimately won one Academy Award in theBest Original Song categoryforBillie EilishandFinneas' song “What Was I Made For?”

source: people.com