Paul Ruddis having a hard time accepting his new title ofPEOPLE’s 2021 Sexiest Man Alive.

The actor, 52, has heard it all — kind, self-deprecating, affable, hardworking, all labels he’s embraced to some degree. Butsexy? That’s a little outside his wheelhouse.

“I do have an awareness, enough to know that when people hear that I’d be picked for this, they would say, ‘What?’ " the actor tells PEOPLE in this week’s cover story. “This is not false humility. There are so many people that should get this before me.”

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“When I think about myself, I think of myself as a husband and a father, like I’mthat,” he says. “I just hang out with my family when I’m not working. That’s what I kind of like the most.”

The actor’s wife was the only person he told ahead of time about his new title.

“She was stupefied,” he says. “But you know she was very sweet about it. After some giggling and shock, she said ‘Oh, they got it right.’ And that was very sweet. She was probably not telling the truth, but what’s she going to say?”

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Rudd is also expecting his circle of friends to give him “so much grief.”

“As they should. I would,” he allows. “I mean I’m going to lean into it hard. I’m going to own this. I’m not going to try to be like ‘Oh, I’m so modest.’ I’m getting business cards made. But all of my friends will destroy me and I expect them to. And that’s why they’re my friends.”

Now that he’s officially sexy, Rudd anticipates his life changing “a lot.”

“I’m hoping now that I’ll finally be invited to some of those sexy dinners with Clooney and Pitt andB Jordan,” he says. “And I figure I’ll be on a lot more yachts. I’m excited to expand my yachting life. And I’ll probably try to get better at brooding in really soft light. I like to ponder. I think this is going to help me become more inward and mysterious. And I’m looking forward to that.”

So are we.

source: people.com